My parent's are doing a great job keeping Ben's grave festive. My mom bought these pumpkins for Ben's grave a few weeks ago and then today my dad came home with this CUTE Christmas tree. (first Christmas tree to go up in the cemetery by the way) It wasn't until I was standing there, after he secured the tree in place, that I realized Thanksgiving is tomorrow and this will be our first one without Ben. But in the midst of sadness, there is much to be thankful for. I'm so thankful that I was lucky enough to be his mother. And I'm thankful for the knowledge that we will be reunited with him again someday. We love you Benny!