I took the girls down to MA to visit Ben this weekend. His grave was overgrown with crabgrass. We cleared it all hoping to get some grass planted soon. I always feel so badly knowing that his grave has nothing on it, no stone or marker. But it's all about money that we don't have right now. So smart little Stevie decided to write his name in stones. I thought she did a great job. It was good to be near him again.